Now, you might be asking, "Drew, how can you expect to become great from being ordinary?" First, let's look at the word extraordinary. If we break the word into two parts: extra and ordinary, then the simple answer is that we just need to be more ordinary in our daily goings-on. Huh? More ordinary? Stay with me I'm not trying to confuse anyone. I'm simply trying to explain that greatness does not necessarily come from doing superhuman things. Rather, it comes from our ability to do necessary everyday things well. Here are a few examples of everyday things: being polite, saying hello to people who cross your path, picking up litter and throwing it away or recycling it, smiling, being patient while driving, listening when others speak to you, etc. None of the above are overly difficult. They are quite ordinary practices, and yet, how often do we neglect to do these things? I know I neglect them on a daily basis. One good example of a man doing ordinary things well, who has been in the news lately, is Pope Francis. In my opinion, he should be called the "ordinary pope." For those who have not been following him, you should do a little research into his activities lately. He seems to epitomize being ordinary. He has done his very best (up to this point) to shed the image of royalty and authority often associated with church hierarchy for a much more down to earth image. He did not invent this image, though. He is simply trying to bring the image of Jesus back to the forefront. If we pay close enough attention to Jesus in the scriptures, we find that he was the best at being ordinary. He seemed to do all of the little ordinary things that would benefit others in large extraordinary ways. So, by doing the ordinary things extremely well, Jesus was extraordinary. This is how we find our spiritual greatness.
Over the past week, I have found one avenue where I can practice being more ordinary than usual. That avenue is in my friendship to others. I have two friends that have gone through stress and sadness within this same week. One friend, in the midst of taking the bar exam, had to face the reality that he had to put down his dog that had been suffering from prostate cancer. The other friend, while on an annual vacation with his buddies of around fifteen years, lost one of those friends in a drowning accident. Since, I have come to find out that the first friend actually knew the man who drowned, too. Goodness. What was I to do? Naturally, I wanted to grieve with and for my friends, but would that be enough? I wanted to do something extraordinary for them. However, the more I thought about the extraordinary, the more I wasted time not doing anything. In the end, my simple yet ordinary offering of prayers, support, and availability was exactly what these guys needed. So, as we go forward in our lives, let us make a commitment to simply being the best kind of ordinary we can be and in doing so, we will become extraordinary.
May we be ever-faithful, ever-mindful, and ever-joyful.
